软钉子 Traditional form: 軟釘子 Pinyin (reading): ruǎndīngzi Definitions: lit. a soft nail fig. a tactful retort or rejection Characters: 软 - soft, pliable, flexible; weak 钉 - nail, spike 子 - son, child; seed, egg; fruit; small thing Traditional characters: 軟 - soft, pliable, flexible; weak 釘 - nail, spike 子 - son, child; seed, egg; fruit; small thing