痛失 Traditional form: 痛失 Pinyin (reading): tòngshī Definitions: to suffer the painful loss of (a loved one etc) to miss out on (an opportunity) to fail to gain (victory etc) Characters: 痛 - ache, pain; bitterness, sorrow; deeply, thoroughly 失 - to lose; to make a mistake, to neglect Traditional characters: 痛 - ache, pain; bitterness, sorrow; deeply, thoroughly 失 - to lose; to make a mistake, to neglect